STRIKE 008: PEOPLE PLEASING IS AN INSTALLATION

 

In this Strike, Sinéad exposes people-pleasing as installed architecture — a harmonisation program embedded before choice, language, or consent, designed to regulate signal in exchange for perceived safety.

This episode dismantles how people-pleasing is:

  • sold as a personality, a gift, and a marker of emotional intelligence

  • repackaged as a problem to fix, heal, or recover from

  • monetised through self-development, “inner work,” and recovery identity

and why these frames preserve the architecture instead of ending it.

Strike 008 shows how harmonisation:

  • turns empathy into regulation

  • converts belonging into performance

  • drains leadership by replacing command with reaction-management

  • destabilises wealth by interrupting clean routing

This is not about healing or improvement.
It is about withdrawal.

When the installation ends, there is no recovery phase, no new identity, no “healed” self.

Only presence —
undramatised, unnegotiated, unavailable for harmonisation.

Distortion ends.
Truth moves.

 

 

LINKS

→ The Kiln — Collective Vaults https://originwealtharchitecture.com/CollectiveVaults

→ Precision Field Work Chambers https://originwealtharchitecture.com/PrivateChambers

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→ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/sinéadcracknell